Real-Life Habit Hacks That Help Families Stay on Track
One of my daughter’s habits is to play with the kitten. It helps them both get their energy out!
When you’re managing a household, habit formation feels like you’re running backwards. You can’t see the road in front of you, it feels awkward, and one of your kids probably just ran smack into you.
But here’s what I’ve learned: habits don’t have to be overwhelming. They can be fun, flexible, and simple. Yes, even if your morning routine feels more like herding cats than a calm start to the day.
Recognizing the Need for a New Approach
Our family tried the classic route: charts, strict timelines, consequences and schedules. It always ended the same way—with the chart unfinished, someone crying, and questioning all my life choices.
That’s when we decided to try something different. If our ADHD brains crave novelty, fun, and flexibility...why were we doing the exact opposite?
So, we threw out the old ways and started building habits in a way that actually worked for us—playful, visual, flexible, and just the right amount of silly.
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Habits That Actually Work (and Are Surprisingly Fun)
1. Use Resources They Already Relate To
At my kids’ school they have a variety of tools to help keep kids on track. One of the tools is utilizing The 7 Habits of Happy Kids. By using a resource they already know and use in school, it makes the process easier for everyone. BTW Habit 3 “Put First Things First” helps with our morning routine. Yes, you can play with your toys, after you brush your teeth.
2. Habit Streaks (Because Bragging Rights = Motivation)
Want your kids to remember to feed the cat or put their dishes in the sink? Track streaks with magnets, stickers or an app. Even the grown-ups get in on it. We’ve been known to high-five over remembering to take vitamins two days in a row. Fair warning, this may bring out the competitive side of your family members.
3. Family Games
Turn any habit into a mini-game. Examples from our house:
“Who can tidy their room tornado fast?” Set the timer for 5 minutes and see how much the tornado picks up.
“How many toys can we put away before the song ends?”
“Let’s all score with laundry.” We use the top of the washer as a backboard and score points while throwing the clothes in.
It’s silly and it works. And sometimes, we even enjoy it.
4. Flexible Routines (Fluidity is Your Friend)
Instead of minute-by-minute schedules, we follow what my kids call patterns. Morning time = wake up → dress → eat → brush teeth → school. Sometimes it takes 20 minutes. Sometimes it takes 65 and includes a few detours. And that’s okay. The patterns keep us moving (and waking up early enough helps keep us not stressed about the clock).
5. Use Tech to Your Advantage
Remember how I mentioned a timer earlier? Timers are our BFFs. I’ve seen other moms, friends, and individuals use timers on their phone as easy reminders. We also use silly alarms with notes. Nothing like seeing something humorous to motivate action.
Keeping Things Fun: The Secret Sauce
That’s the magic. When habits feel like a game, novelty, or even a mini party—you’re not dragging your family along… they’re (mostly) excited to play along.
Yes, we still forget things. Yes, we still have chaotic days. But now we have tools that feel less like punishment and more like an adventure.
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Final Thoughts: Building Habits, One Fun Step at a Time
If your family’s habits look nothing like Pinterest perfection, good. That means you’re human. And if you’re trying, laughing, and adjusting as you go? That means you’re winning.
Start small. Make it fun. And celebrate every weird, wonderful little win along the way.
Looking for more of a deep dive into habits for you and your family? Checkout the masterclass here!
Until next time, enjoy the journey!
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